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I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. I have never been with any man but him until I was raped. I didn't know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life. I have two children from my marriage. It happens that We traveled to my husband village during last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by armed robbers a gang of 7 members . It was a very terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me. The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothe and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn't listen. It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn't so. I felt a kind of ,electrifying sensations that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn't know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal. I was told I was screaming very hard when I wanted to come. Yes I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn't been the same. The robber took me two rounds which I came both times. I don't know what happened, if it was my village people that pursued me, but all I can say is that I haven't had such with my husband. My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they robbers left. He called me unprintable names, I am a prostitute, he didn't know I was an ashawo. He can't marry an Ashawo. I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings . My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to our home. I was Damaged .How could such a thing happened to me? What was responsible for me enjoying being raped and even coming as a result of it? How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body? These were the questions I kept asking myself. When I got discharged I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband , involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life. My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a whore. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still healing, still seeing my therapist. But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am. I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life . I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me . Pls don't judge me, because you don't know my pains. By July I will be through with the divorce . I just want you all to wish me well with my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.
1. Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?
2. Was the husband being fair to her?
3. Was divorce the only way out?
4. was it her fault that she was raped?
ANSWER✅
1. It was never a crime for her to enjoy the rape Sex. She has never experience orgasm(Cum) during Sex. The feelings from orgasms cant be faked neither can it be controlled‼ This why Sex education is very very important in marriage. You don't say bcos you are a leader in a church or someone who's so much close to God you should mind how you av Sex with your partner. When you are married, you automatically av the license to all aspect/style of Sex (Except Oral and Anal Sex). When you satisfy God in the spiritual sense you are expected to also satisfy your partner in all aspect. Don't be a spiritual illiterate.. *Spiritual illiteracy* is the moment you don't know what you are meant to do or free to do that won't affect your spiritual life. God didn't say you should satisfy the holy spirit and denial your partner sexual satisfaction‼.. You have to make sure you balance all with your spiritual life. Don't be active in public and be a doomy in bed🛌. Some partners are sexually pained because their partner doesn't satisfy them of which asking for more would make them look whore. Don't be spiritually drunk in foolishness‼ Whether you like it or not, Sex is very very paramount in marriage. If you can't give it real good then be ready to see your marriage turn bad. Then you won't av the right to blame God, you would blame yourself. God gave you the right partner, it's your right to keep them with your qualities‼
2. The husband wasnt fair enough to av seek divorce. This is where you ought to know the importance of maturity in a partner. Age doesn't define this. Before you think or conclude to marry them ask yourself Is your partner Physically, financially, spiritually, maritally and Emotionally matured⁉🤔 This doesn't goes with whether they love you or not. They can love you so much without maturity. Immaturity constitute stupidity‼ Don't be with someone who would constitute nuisance over what is expected to be understood. Sometimes you av to look beyond what went wrong and put yourself in their choose. The husband has his own fault for not satisfying his wife sexually as expected. So he shouldn't av suggested divorce.
3. Was divorce the only way out? The question is wrong because Divorce is never one of the way out. Instead understanding their mistakes and improving their sexual life through Sex education is the only way out.
4. It is never anyone's fault of being raped. No one prays or expect bad things to happen to them._
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PLEASE ADVICE HER
I am a Banker in my early 30s and going through a messy divorce. I married my husband as a virgin. I have never been with any man but him until I was raped. I didn't know anything about orgasm, climax or what have you because I have never experienced it. 8 years of marriage with a miserable sex life. I have two children from my marriage. It happens that We traveled to my husband village during last Easter period. While in his country home by 1 am in the night our house was raided by armed robbers a gang of 7 members . It was a very terrifying experience, after collecting all the valuables at home, the leader turned to rape me. The leader tied my husband to a chair, tore my clothe and went on to show me his manhood that he will use it on me. I was frightened. I begged him and cried but he wouldn't listen. It was a rape that cost me my marriage. As the guy was entering me, I was supposed to feel pains but that wasn't so. I felt a kind of ,electrifying sensations that I have never felt in my whole life. I screamed oh my God, as he started pounding on me I didn't know when I was holding him hard and begging him not to stop to the amazement of others, I was enjoying being raped by a criminal. I was told I was screaming very hard when I wanted to come. Yes I had my first orgasm through rape and since then my life hasn't been the same. The robber took me two rounds which I came both times. I don't know what happened, if it was my village people that pursued me, but all I can say is that I haven't had such with my husband. My husband gave me the beatings of my life after they robbers left. He called me unprintable names, I am a prostitute, he didn't know I was an ashawo. He can't marry an Ashawo. I was hospitalized for two weeks as a result of that incident and his beatings . My husband left me at the hospital and travelled back to our home. I was Damaged .How could such a thing happened to me? What was responsible for me enjoying being raped and even coming as a result of it? How could I even enjoy such act of cruelty on my body? These were the questions I kept asking myself. When I got discharged I met a divorce papers waiting for me to sign. I tried begging my husband , involved my parents but he swore instead of staying with me he will rather die. That I am a disgrace to his life. My husband is a rich guy, so when our divorce news broke out, while I was denying it, he kept telling everyone one that I am a whore. It took me months to accept my predicament and move on. I am still healing, still seeing my therapist. But one thing I know is that I am not what my husband says I am. I am just a woman who was sexually starved. I did not pray to be raped, but it was the turning point of my life . I just feel like sharing this with you my family because it will help me . Pls don't judge me, because you don't know my pains. By July I will be through with the divorce . I just want you all to wish me well with my new life. I pray to find Love in the nearest Future.
1. Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?
2. Was the husband being fair to her?
3. Was divorce the only way out?
4. was it her fault that she was raped?
ANSWER✅
1. It was never a crime for her to enjoy the rape Sex. She has never experience orgasm(Cum) during Sex. The feelings from orgasms cant be faked neither can it be controlled‼ This why Sex education is very very important in marriage. You don't say bcos you are a leader in a church or someone who's so much close to God you should mind how you av Sex with your partner. When you are married, you automatically av the license to all aspect/style of Sex (Except Oral and Anal Sex). When you satisfy God in the spiritual sense you are expected to also satisfy your partner in all aspect. Don't be a spiritual illiterate.. *Spiritual illiteracy* is the moment you don't know what you are meant to do or free to do that won't affect your spiritual life. God didn't say you should satisfy the holy spirit and denial your partner sexual satisfaction‼.. You have to make sure you balance all with your spiritual life. Don't be active in public and be a doomy in bed🛌. Some partners are sexually pained because their partner doesn't satisfy them of which asking for more would make them look whore. Don't be spiritually drunk in foolishness‼ Whether you like it or not, Sex is very very paramount in marriage. If you can't give it real good then be ready to see your marriage turn bad. Then you won't av the right to blame God, you would blame yourself. God gave you the right partner, it's your right to keep them with your qualities‼
2. The husband wasnt fair enough to av seek divorce. This is where you ought to know the importance of maturity in a partner. Age doesn't define this. Before you think or conclude to marry them ask yourself Is your partner Physically, financially, spiritually, maritally and Emotionally matured⁉🤔 This doesn't goes with whether they love you or not. They can love you so much without maturity. Immaturity constitute stupidity‼ Don't be with someone who would constitute nuisance over what is expected to be understood. Sometimes you av to look beyond what went wrong and put yourself in their choose. The husband has his own fault for not satisfying his wife sexually as expected. So he shouldn't av suggested divorce.
3. Was divorce the only way out? The question is wrong because Divorce is never one of the way out. Instead understanding their mistakes and improving their sexual life through Sex education is the only way out.
4. It is never anyone's fault of being raped. No one prays or expect bad things to happen to them._
🙇🙇🙇
Use WiSDOM!
©Samson Crown
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