A note of advise to my brothers. This is another issue that should be addressed as much as God ordained marriage is concerned. I would love you guys to read this either now or whenever you have time.
Dear Brothers on the other side who haven't yet found the reckless love of Christ. I thought about you today, and I just wanted to take a minute to share this with you quickly. Please read whenever you find the time...
If you are dating a woman you intend to marry, I mean, if you've found the woman you seriously want to spend the rest of your life with, please take your time to do a projection on the following;
HER BODY
Understand that women go through a lot of physical changes, almost in every area of their body, especially those selling point areas that probably attracted you to her; I'm talking about her boobs and buttocks, hips and waist. Look at her with the eyes of the future, envision how wide or how skinny she will look in a few years from now, and see if the changes are something you will naturally want to go through with.
Alot of times the reason why an un-spirited man will cheat on his wife is not because he doesn't love her per say, yes he does, the challenge is just that he loves the other version of her, the version he fell in love with from the start, the version that came with a flawless face, standing boobs and a starched buttocks, not the chubby version she has become after a few months of marriage, not the version that can no longer fit into a nice dress, let alone jeans. Not this version with a wardrobe full of wrappers, because it's the only thing that can fit. You catch the gist right?
Do a projection and picture how she will look in the morrow, then fall in love with the idea of who she is growing to be, just as you are in love with the picture of who she is right now.
Faithful men are those who are committed to loving their wives through every season of her changes;
When she's pregnant and all swollen up.
When she doesn't look as attractive as you will like because she's breastfeeding.
Those somewhat annoying moments when she'll just carelessly take out her breast to comfort your child in front of your friends and it doesn't bother her, gosh! it can be crazy, and I know that you get the idea what I'm talking about. But God-men love their wives the most even in this crazy seasons.
I am writing to you because it's important that you understand and accept these realities since you are on the other side of Christ. It is hard enough that you don't have the fear of God neither do you do things in his ways, but what the Lord doesn't want is For you to end up in another bad marriage, for you to become another unfaithful husband, because that can make it really complicated for Him to get to you and make your marriage a forever one. Please consider this realities if you really Love your Girlfriend because of her Beauty, Height, structure, Boobs or Buttocks.
For some of us who have the fear of Christ, we have sworn to love our wives come thin, thick or chubby. No matter the changes she goes through our love follows her all the way.
For us, loving our wife through all seasons is not a choice, it is a life covenant. We understand that she belongs to God no matter the body changes she undergoes. So when she's skinny, we become caretakers of God's skinny Property. And when she gets chubby we also become caretakers of God's chubby property, the only difference is that this time we will have to start working out in other to keep up with her in the boom boom room. But the hidden man of her heart always stays the same, her VALUES; and that is what's most important to us... So guys don't love your girl for the now but till Life time.
YOU MAY ALSO CHECK
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MARITAL QUESTION AND ANSWER
I know some of you ladies love your guy and also the Love you have both shared for years. That's good, but have you ever ask yourself this question;- "Though he really LOVE me, but till when ???... It's high time you know the truth from him irrespective of the years you have spent together because the years spent in courtship doesn't guarantee a LONG LASTING MARRIAGE. You will need to ask him some questions jokingly of which you will need to apply your wisdom to his answers. Ask him questions like ;
1) I know you truly Love me but what did you see that made you love me this much? (If his answer is based on your look or probably what you are good at.. you need to be very careful.. reasons fade! "A wise and real loving person will Love you for no reason").
2) Why are you in a relationship with me or why do you go into a relationship with people?...( If he reply by saying nothing or because he loves you, you need to be very careful for a real guy will go into a relationship for the purpose of marriage.. nothing more...)
3) What if by tomorrow I got fat or slim, what will you tell me to do ??... ( If he should tell you that you will both find a way to get your shape back a must because he doesn't like fat or slim ladies which might not be possible of which might prompt him to cheat in Marriage, you need to be very careful for "A God fearing loving guy reply should be like 'We may engage in exercise if that can help but I love you not for your look nor shape, you changing is natural... So still gonna LOVE you for who you are dear')..
You ladies are the primary reason why marriage was ordained. To multiply. Sp endeavor to enjoy the season with who is meant for you. You all need to be very careful if you don't want to witness the bad side of MARRIAGE.
Use WiSDOM!
Feel free to drop your comments below.
HAPPY SUNDAY!
I remain my Humble self,
©Samson Crown
No matter the changes she goes through, WILL YOU STILL LOVE HER FOR REAL???
If you are dating a woman you intend to marry, I mean, if you've found the woman you seriously want to spend the rest of your life with, please take your time to do a projection on the following;
HER BODY
Understand that women go through a lot of physical changes, almost in every area of their body, especially those selling point areas that probably attracted you to her; I'm talking about her boobs and buttocks, hips and waist. Look at her with the eyes of the future, envision how wide or how skinny she will look in a few years from now, and see if the changes are something you will naturally want to go through with.
Alot of times the reason why an un-spirited man will cheat on his wife is not because he doesn't love her per say, yes he does, the challenge is just that he loves the other version of her, the version he fell in love with from the start, the version that came with a flawless face, standing boobs and a starched buttocks, not the chubby version she has become after a few months of marriage, not the version that can no longer fit into a nice dress, let alone jeans. Not this version with a wardrobe full of wrappers, because it's the only thing that can fit. You catch the gist right?
Do a projection and picture how she will look in the morrow, then fall in love with the idea of who she is growing to be, just as you are in love with the picture of who she is right now.
Faithful men are those who are committed to loving their wives through every season of her changes;
When she's pregnant and all swollen up.
When she doesn't look as attractive as you will like because she's breastfeeding.
Those somewhat annoying moments when she'll just carelessly take out her breast to comfort your child in front of your friends and it doesn't bother her, gosh! it can be crazy, and I know that you get the idea what I'm talking about. But God-men love their wives the most even in this crazy seasons.
I am writing to you because it's important that you understand and accept these realities since you are on the other side of Christ. It is hard enough that you don't have the fear of God neither do you do things in his ways, but what the Lord doesn't want is For you to end up in another bad marriage, for you to become another unfaithful husband, because that can make it really complicated for Him to get to you and make your marriage a forever one. Please consider this realities if you really Love your Girlfriend because of her Beauty, Height, structure, Boobs or Buttocks.
For some of us who have the fear of Christ, we have sworn to love our wives come thin, thick or chubby. No matter the changes she goes through our love follows her all the way.
For us, loving our wife through all seasons is not a choice, it is a life covenant. We understand that she belongs to God no matter the body changes she undergoes. So when she's skinny, we become caretakers of God's skinny Property. And when she gets chubby we also become caretakers of God's chubby property, the only difference is that this time we will have to start working out in other to keep up with her in the boom boom room. But the hidden man of her heart always stays the same, her VALUES; and that is what's most important to us... So guys don't love your girl for the now but till Life time.
YOU MAY ALSO CHECK
👇👇👇
MARITAL QUESTION AND ANSWER
I know some of you ladies love your guy and also the Love you have both shared for years. That's good, but have you ever ask yourself this question;- "Though he really LOVE me, but till when ???... It's high time you know the truth from him irrespective of the years you have spent together because the years spent in courtship doesn't guarantee a LONG LASTING MARRIAGE. You will need to ask him some questions jokingly of which you will need to apply your wisdom to his answers. Ask him questions like ;
1) I know you truly Love me but what did you see that made you love me this much? (If his answer is based on your look or probably what you are good at.. you need to be very careful.. reasons fade! "A wise and real loving person will Love you for no reason").
2) Why are you in a relationship with me or why do you go into a relationship with people?...( If he reply by saying nothing or because he loves you, you need to be very careful for a real guy will go into a relationship for the purpose of marriage.. nothing more...)
3) What if by tomorrow I got fat or slim, what will you tell me to do ??... ( If he should tell you that you will both find a way to get your shape back a must because he doesn't like fat or slim ladies which might not be possible of which might prompt him to cheat in Marriage, you need to be very careful for "A God fearing loving guy reply should be like 'We may engage in exercise if that can help but I love you not for your look nor shape, you changing is natural... So still gonna LOVE you for who you are dear')..
You ladies are the primary reason why marriage was ordained. To multiply. Sp endeavor to enjoy the season with who is meant for you. You all need to be very careful if you don't want to witness the bad side of MARRIAGE.
Use WiSDOM!
Feel free to drop your comments below.
HAPPY SUNDAY!
I remain my Humble self,
©Samson Crown
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