Bro&Sis, I preach this from time to time over relationship and marriage. This is not to frustrate or scare you about this union that may look like a normal and simple contract to you. But to give enough warning so as to make sure you take heed to avoid stories that touch. You have a life beyond marriage yet the rest of your life lives in it. Everyone has a generation which you are expected to make in your life through marriage. God ordaind marriage to make this happen. To multiply... What kind of posterity will your partner help you make? your partners lifestyle together with yours would produce what kind of future generations??
My lady, I understand how tough it is to spot or identify the "right" among different "numerous wrongs" looking alike.. I understand how lot of men could show up to love you so much that they keep you in a state of confusion. You begin to wonder who is right for you because they are all acting right just to have you. In the process of this, they would disturb and frustrate you into saying yes quickly in their selfishness. Don't be moved by this. Some people are so fast, while you are still trying to know basic things, they start pressuring for commitment. Don't commit to the unknown just because you are afraid to loose out. Remember rush can crush‼️ You must not say "No" to slow things down. Don't be too quick to reject someone. You don't judge by look, financial stability or how you feel towards them,.. You choose by spiritual, mental, goal, character, hygiene, and lifestyle convictions which cannot be discovered in a day or at first sight. You can simply let them know that you don't know enough to commit. Don't beat around the bush. If they can walk away at this point, let them go! Relationship and marriage decision ought to begin with conviction, not the threat of loosing someone. Your aim should be having a partner whose kind of life would bring you peace and help you produce godly generations.
My Brother, I understand how a man could be tempted to choose wrong. I understand how you could be so confuse to choose between Chioma and Angelina all because you could see some qualities in Chioma which Angelina doesn't have and vice versa.
I understand how you could claim to love Bukky in few minutes your mind is already cutting across Ayomide. I also understand how you could be frustrated by Adeola over marriage when you aren't ready.. All these issues are simple to solve if you allow God lead you and at the same time knowing the difference between what you want and what you need. You would want lot of ladies but you only need one specific lady who could forever fill your heart with peace and help you build Godly generations. You shouldn't let any lady frustrate you over relationship or marriage when you aren't ready and importantly, if you aren't convinced enough about her. Marriage is a lifetime contract full of risk. If her target is marriage you may make a big mistake going into that with her. Some ladies only need you to crown them the marital title (Mrs) so as to freely pull their burdens on you. Be very careful. If she can't understand the man you need to build yourself into before marriage and how she could unleash her purpose(help) on you to make you achieve that, let her go. You may not necessarily own the world🌏 but having anything legal that can sustain a family financially on daily basis is very important. Don't go into a relationship or marriage with a lady who is a wreck and whose kind of life can't affect your future generations positively. Look beyond your wants, chase what you need‼️
God is only a director in our life. He gave us the right to make our choices. He so much respect that. While it is important you involve God when choosing a lifetime partner, it is also necessary you lay your focus on the kinda of partner whose lifestyle glorify God. "It doesn't mean" is the reason some people are regretting in marriage.
Let him direct you while you chase what's right‼️
What kind of future generations would your lifestyle combine with your partners' lifestyle produce?.. Your POSTERITY Is not a matter that concerns you alone. It involves God!... Bring down your Ego, read books and articles that helps. Attend relationship and marriage seminars. While you wait for God to link you up with the right person, you also have your own job to do.
As today is regard as the holy day, I pray you won't make a wrong choice that would leave you with lifetime regret and unforgivable Sin that would make God abandone you. Amen‼️
Let this espitle take effect in your life. God bless.
💥HAPPY💫SUNDAY‼️💥
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Your friend,
Folorunsho Adeshola Samson.
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