Bro&Sis, No relationship and marriage can forever run in wet or dry season. Irrespective of the current situation always prepare for the opposite. Life would not always appear the way we want it. This is why there is need to have tolerance, endurance and a partner who's full of understanding. Never let external circumstances determine how your relationship or marriage should be run.
I understand how a man could Feel very bad when he finds it hard to act like the man he is expected to be in terms of provision and financial stability. This shouldn't make you feel worthless, loose focus or pull anger over your partner Instead believe there are better days ahead that would wipe off these trials and keep working. Don't pull anger over your woman. Colossians 3:19 Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them. This mean you need to be friendly to her irrespective of the situation. 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 also says "Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.."bThe moment you allow your current situation affect your relationship or marriage, you have failed as man.
As a lady, you must be able to endure and support. Don't ridicule your man all because he doesn't have enough neither should you let the current situation affect your relationship or marriage. A lady who is selfish and lack endurance would loose focus of where she is meant to be‼️As a woman, you are created for a purpose. This purpose was to be a helper to man. Indulge your purpose in your relationship or marriage. Encourage your man instead of looking down on him or planning to leave. Proverbs 31:11-12 says “Her husband trusts her completely. With her, he has everything he needs. She does him good and not harm for as long as she lives.” These mean you have to serve your purpose(help) till eternity irrespective of your past. Proverbs 12:4 also says that “A noble wife is the crown of her husband, but the wife who acts shamefully is like rottenness in his bones.” This mean you are expected to be your mans' strength and not weakness. Don't let current situation take away your submissiveness. The moment you begin to make him feel unlucky with you, you have failed as a woman. You have become a burden and not the helper you are meant to be. When he feel it is finished, you gives him hope‼️
In relationship and marriage partners are expected to be there for each other through thick and thin.
When you understand the basic concept of relationship and marriage you would never make a mess of it‼️
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Folorunsho Adeshola Samson
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