Bro&Sis,
Our generation is a kind of generation that finds it hard to read educational books unless it's a story. We hate to attend seminars, read relational books or articles that could help our relationship life. Not because we only hate to read but because we have pride. We never want to feel instructed, directed or adviced. Lot has rushed quitting a relationship just because they are having issues. Some could be solved RELATIONAL and with WiSD🧠M. Issues they should have surmount and be absolutely fine, but pride wouldn't let them seek advice from those that could help. Some relationships aren't strong enough for partners to solve issues themselves. Yet these partners won't attend seminars nor read books to learn on how to relate with situations and won't allow third party come between them to solve issues. There are some issues you won't be able to solve yourselves unless someone that has the knowledge on how you can go about it comes in. This is where there's need for counselling.
Whether you wait to achieve all, or wait to a certain age before thinking of having a partner or you speak in tongue or when your pray fire descend, you will not still have a blissful relationship if you lack relational knowledge‼️ "Hosea 4:6, My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee,..." It is not about how long you patiently wait to a certain time before having a partner or how careful you've been to run a relationship, It is about the knowledge you've had and how you continuously learn on how to have and keep a relationship. Lot of Christians have made God look like someone who never exist because of how relationship is to them despite the fact that they worship him. God exist and will forever do. He is just a God with discipline. While he work, you also work. Note that, It is Gods' responsibility to link you up with who he has made perfectly for you but your responsibility to keep him or her with knowledge and wisdom. When you attend seminars, join platforms and read books that can help, you didn't help the hosts or writers but yourself whether you are in a relationship or not.
Most people with good heart aren't always luck when it comes to relationship issues. This is because while running the relationship with good heart, they fail to apply wisdom. It is lack of wisdom that makes one foolishly continue a relationship having lot of reasons to end. Sometimes we waste time thinking we are being patient because we lack relational knowledge due to the fact that we have pride with learning. Pride will make you take the wrong step while you think are doing the right thing. Approach those you can learn good things from. Those that can give you godly advice. Either a mentor, pastor or a counselor. Also make sure who ever you are choosing doesn't have pride with learning or someone that lacks knowledge on how to run a relationship. Not someone who takes what they should ignore personal because they lack emotional maturity.
You feel like, "no be marriage? We go do ham" E go shock you!
Free yourself from ego. Be open to learning.
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