1. YOU CAN ALSO PROPOSE.
Shocked?😳... Lot of ladies are filled with the thought of not being able to propose to a guy they have crush on because of how they think they would be rendered worthless. Yea, thats true but only with the nuissance that never appreciate the value of self-expression. God never said its only the men that has the right to pick or go for who and what they want. You also have the freedom to choose what you think is good for you. We pray to God to link us with the right partner but sometimes God answer through us by setting us on emotional attachment with another. You are there dying emotionally for a guy who knows nothing about your feelings. How would that work?🤷♂ The way we have guys with low hique same way we have guys with great hique. A guy may not value your affection towards him when you start expressing your feelings and likeness stylish without pouring out your mind. How you can go about this is to act like a normal friend towards him, don't try showing him any trace of your affection. Tell him you are wondering over why guys don't appreciate a lady that express her feelings to them and ask about his own view over a lady proposing to a guy. His answer now will determine if he is the type you can tell your feelings or not. He will surely tell you his mind because you are friends and he never thought you could be wanting to do such. The one destined for you would appreciate your feelings and never take advantage of it. God would always send you who is emotionally and mentally matured. Gods' own people would be found in his spirit that has all qualities. Don't loose the guy you had physical convictions and spiritual compatibility with while thinking of not being able to propose.
2. DON'T KEEP HIM WAITING FOR LONG.
Keeping a guy waiting for long before the word "YES" is very bad. It kills feelings. To you it will let him value you and make the relationship last long. That's not true. Listen, the more you keep him waiting for long, the more the love depreciate because gradually he would get tired and pissed off. Love gradually dies when it sees no supporting fuel from the other. Love that starts within a time needs a supporting partner to make it grow. Keeping him waiting for months or years doesn’t assure the relationship is gonna last long or lead to its main purpose, marriage. What will make it last is within you and your partner and how both of you react to it. So, do you like him? Does he meet some basic spiritual and personal expectations? Then above all, do you have peace concerning him from your Spirit? This is the peace of God. It is not earthly, sensual or based on bank balance or what we can exactly see, It is the nodging that "This is destiny".
If these answers are in the affirmative, what exactly are you waiting for? So, I advise, get on your knees and once there is divine assurance, stop keeping him waiting and getting your thinking in confusion!
3. DON'T MANAGE A RELATIONSHIP.
Many ladies stayed in bad relationsip falsely believing it is their last one. Either they think they have gone too far, too messed up, invested too much in the relationship or don't want to leave the guy who deflowered them. That's bad. If its not working, it is not! You don't need to manage him. Don't you know the more he treats you bad and you never react the more you gives him the power to destroy you and your future. Forget about he being the one who deflowered you or all you've invested in the relationship, considered that as your greatest mistake. All you've lost is not as important as your destiny. Never let your mistake get you stocked to what would destroy your destiny. Fine, he has done it countless times out of your ignorance, but his private part didn't stick to it. So what the problem that you can't let go? You should only regret but never let that get you down. Getting affirmatively to your mistake is another greatest mistake. Please end up the crack relationship and move on with your life. Follow Gods' lead and all that you think is lost would be regained. You would surely meet someone better.
4. ERASE THE THINKING OF "I DON'T LOVE HIM, I CAN'T DATE HIM".
Before a successful relationship comes up, one would have a crush on the other. Give the guy a chance if you really think his feelings are real with his convictions. You will surely reciprocate his love as time goes on. If you don't test-run a car🚘 you can never tell on it condition or qualities. Give him a try and sees how it goes. You don't love him now but you can date him. His attitude and character would teach you to love him. It is better and safe to date who loves you than who you loves. Only the wise would understand the importance of this. Would explain better in one of the paragraphs below.
5. DON'T RELY ON A RELATIONSHIP WHERE THERE IS NO FUTURE.
Most ladies finds themselves stocked in a wasteful relationship. Relationship where future matters were not discussed. No plan for future. Try dating someone who cares about your future. Someone who can ask life questions like how you are going to earn for a living if education or whatever you are doing doesnt works out, what else you can do to sustain yourself. Date who would motivate and teach you on why you shouldn't put your head in one basket.. What can both of you engage in?
Dating someone who has no futuristic concern about your life together would bring no good but harm because you will later finds out that you have wasted so many years on the wrong person.
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6. DON'T DRESS TO IMPRESS BUT EXPRESS YOUR DIGNITY.
Dressing is a sign of good and bad personality. The way you dress is exactly the way you would be approached. Don't dress anyhow because you want to impress your boyfriend, Someone you like or people around you. You never can tell what your boyfriend says behind you to his friends neither who people sees you to be. Let them appreciate you for good. I'm not saying you shouldn't look good but make your dressing a very simple one. Not the kind of dressing that shows your laps, boobs, or any part of your body you want out to seduce. Don't forget you attract who you are. I fall in love based on mood of dressing, simplicity, character and attitude. My feelings goes beyond BEAUTY.. Same to other guys like that. If you need something good you also need to look good. Always be the kind of person you want. You need to work on your mode of dressing. It matters and speaks a lot about you!
7. IF YOU CAN'T MARRY HIM, DON'T DATE HIM.
First thing first, what is the main purpose of going into a relationship? To have fun or flirt? You need to put your thoughts about relationship in the right path. This is the right time to start thinking of who you want to marry, who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Most marriages fell in the pit of divorce because they never had proper findings about each other. They never gave enough time to study each other before going into marriage. Atleast before marriage both partner should have undergo about 2years relationship or more so as to know about each other enough before marriage. Not just seeing each other last two months and getting married next month. Its bad. This doesn't guarantee knowing all about your partner but with enough time you can know a lot about them. You may proberbly notice what you don't like in them that need corrections or need to be addressed before marriage along the line. We understand it is only true God you can get the right partner for you. But note, it is Gods' right to give you the right partner, it is your right to keep them by doing the needy. Do you know you can destroy the marriage God ordained with you and your partner? Don't worry, I would write about this soon for more understanding. People mostly end up marrying who they Never felt they have met before. Never marry someone out of pity. If you can't marry him don't deceive him into having relationship with you. Don't eat what you can't swallow.
8. ITS BETTER DATING WHO LOVES YOU THAN WHO YOU LOVE.
Dating who you loves is a great disadvantage on you because you can never tell if they loves you the way you do to them. They have every opportunity to hurt you, break your heart and use you mercilessly because they have your heart with them unknowing they never gave you theirs. Its of no advantage. Its by luck or through God when you find the person you loved, loving you back than you do. Most espcially to ladies. Even if you don't love the guy who loves you. Give him a try if you have enough convictions about him. If he worth you, shows how much he needs you, then trust me you would love him back as time goes on.
It's better to date who loves you because they won't have the advantage to hurt you rather they would love you more and never want you hurt. So appreciate those who really wanna die on top your matter because that's all that matters.
You can try loving someone but you can never force someone into loving you.
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Folorunsho Adeshola Samson.
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